30 Days of Prayer for Your Future Husband
*Note: This blog post is being written over a 30 day span, through promptings of the Holy Spirit. Check back for a new prayer, each day!
One day, I was receiving a lot of flaming darts from the enemy on my future husband. It seemed like almost everywhere I went and saw a male, the enemy was mockingly saying “Maybe that’s her future husband.” Or, “He likes you,” as a form of ungodly temptation, lust, and distraction. Or even “Maybe that’s a sign,” as a form of deception to get me off of the straight and narrow path. None of these things are from the Lord. God is a God of clarity, purity, and He sees the heart. From the beginning of time, He has predestined our spirit’s purpose. He also predestined our God-ordained husband’s spirit. This means that the Lord has predestined both the wife and the husband’s ministry assignments, to operate in alignment with the kingdom purposes of Heaven, and the direct will of God. He has woven both the husband and wife’s ministry assignments together perfectly and intricately, from the very formation in our mother’s womb, and prior. Together, the husband and wife are to be equally yoked (both Christians) and have a God-ordained ministry. The firm foundation, primary spiritual head, and leader for both the husband and wife is to always be Christ. This way, instead of waring against one another, the wife and husband are going to war together against the enemy (satan and his demons).
This means that not only does our future husband need to be a Christian- He needs to be “THE Christian man” that the Lord has predestined for us on our ministry walk with Him. Narrowing down the candidate pool to Christian men as options isn’t the Lord’s will. Hoping on dating apps/websites and filtering people by our own Earthly and human understandings isn’t the Lord’s will. It is the Lord’s will for us to sit with Him and ask Him for divine clarity on what we are to look for, according to His plans for our life, ministry, and marriage. It is His will for us to seek Him and find Him before dating, and to ask Him what His divine timing is. It is His will for us to seek Him and find Him on if a specific person is of His will and plans for our life, as well as for the other person’s life. It is His will for us to ask Him where and how we are to meet our future husband. When we seek the Lord with all of our heart and mind, and truly surrender our own expectations and understandings, He will give us infinitely more than we could ever imagine was possible for our life.
While sitting with the Lord on all of this, I was told to pray for my future husband for 30 days. I began with fasting, until I heard from the Lord to eat. The Lord said that I could eat any meal of my choice. However, the meal was to be one meal a day. He then showed me in the spirit this blog post, and gave me the assignment to write a 30-day fasting guide for women across the Earth, who are finding themselves in a similar spiritual situation. May the Holy Spirit guide you on how to go about this. May the Lord bless you, your future husband, and your God-ordained marriage mightily!!
Day 1- Taken from His Ribs
Verse: Genesis 2:18-25
18 The Lord God said, “It is not good for the man to be alone. I will make a companion for him who corresponds to him.” 19 The Lord God formed out of the ground every living animal of the field and every bird of the air. He brought them to the man to see what he would name them, and whatever the man called each living creature, that was its name. 20 So the man named all the animals, the birds of the air, and the living creatures of the field, but for Adam no companion who corresponded to him was found. 21 So the Lord God caused the man to fall into a deep sleep, and while he was asleep, he took part of the man’s side and closed up the place with flesh. 22 Then the Lord God made a woman from the part he had taken out of the man, and he brought her to the man. 23 Then the man said,
“This one at last is bone of my bones
and flesh of my flesh;
this one will be called ‘woman,’
for she was taken out of man.”
24 That is why a man leaves his father and mother and unites with his wife, and they become a new family. 25 The man and his wife were both naked, but they were not ashamed.
Prayer: “Ancient of Days, lead me to my God-ordained companion. Show me what you have predestined to “correspond to” my created-by-you being, since the beginning of time. You have given man the dominion over every living animal of the field and every bird of the air. You have given man authority over all powers of darkness. Lead me to the man of Godly authority who will stand as the God-ordained spiritual head of the family structure, and all that you have given us dominion over and authority over on this Earth. May what we name together be of You, from You, and for You. Lead us to name our future ministry and our decendents names that are in direct alignment with Your purpose, plans, and will. May our companionship make You well pleased and bring You honor and glory, all the days of our lives. You have made me “bone of his bones and flesh of his flesh,” as my spiritual DNA was taken out of him. May we unite together mightily in Your God-ordained timing. Give my future husband and I wisdom and divine clarity in when me meet, what to look for, and the place of meeting. I loose godly operations and divine appointments. My he operate as the spiritual head from the beginning, by approaching me in a godly manner. Loose clarity, peace, discernment, wisdom, patience, and provision where it is needed. Bind anything contrary to Your will for our future marriage, and loose angels on assignment to dismantle it all at the root. Soften our hearts to prepare the spiritual soil for one another, and the ministry you have prepared for us in advance. Prepare the firm foundation for the rock on which we will stand. Amen.”
Spiritual Warfare I Experienced, Related to Today’s Study: About 2 months ago, through prayer and surrender, I decided to delete all of my social media. On Day 1 of committing to the prayer and fasting, I received an auto generated text message from someone asking me to join WhatsApp. The request to join the app was from a male that I hadn’t spoken to in years. This male was someone I previously befriended during a lifestyle of sin, in which I personally repented of and turned away from, in deliverance. The message was blocked and the attack ended there. This dart and attack from the enemy was obvious. However, it is a great example of how satan tries to get people to compromise, doubt, fantasize, and/or turn back to the very beginning stages of sin (demonic seeds/ungodly agreements), before major breakthrough in God’s kingdom can occur. The start of digital compromise can be as simple as answering a call/message, clicking a link/email, or downloading an app. In person, it can look like accepting ungodly belief systems through agreeing with others around you in conversations, that seem to challenge your current battle a little too closely. Not all thoughts are from the Lord. Our hearts lead to the overflow of our words. Our thoughts, without transformation in Christ, lead to ungodly actions. Hold every thought captive to the obedience of Christ!
Self Reflection for Day 1: Has the Lord ever revealed to you specific qualities in your God-ordained future husband? For example, “He will be a (occupation)” Or, “Together in ministry you will ______.” If so, write them down! Make a list and memorize His words spoken over your future husband/marriage. When God speaks to us, creation is born in the physical. The spiritual moves. That list will serve to dismantle many attacks on your mental clarity and spiritual discernment, as you move forward.
Day 2- Two People are Better Than One
Verse: Ecclesiastes 4:9-12
Labor is Beneficial When Its Rewards Are Shared
9 Two people are better than one,
because they can reap more benefit from their labor.
10 For if they fall, one will help his companion up,
but pity the person who falls down and has no one to help him up.
11 Furthermore, if two lie down together, they can keep each other warm,
but how can one person keep warm by himself?
12 Although an assailant may overpower one person,
two can withstand him.
Moreover, a three-stranded cord is not quickly broken.
Prayer: “Ancient of Days, thank you for carefully designing my God-given partner. Thank you for designing me to be in a ministry relationship and companionship with my future partner. Thank you that when I work, I am not only working for your kingdom as it is written, but I am building Your will and kingdom here, with my future husband on this Earth. Thank you that we will always be cared for, protected, and provided for- during the waiting process and once we are united in marriage. Thank you for designing me to have a helpful, compassionate, and empathetic heart towards my future husband. Thank you for leading my future husband and I to have a godly soul tie, throughout our entire relationship. I loose purity and righteousness over our relationship. I pray that you till the spiritual soul in our relationship, so that our spiritual roots in Christ go far deeper than any trial we may face on this Earth. I ask that anything that isn’t of You in our lineage and bloodlines be exposed and healed, prior to our God-ordained marriage. I pray that the three-stranded cord with You Father is so tightly knit together, that it is a very special and eternal bond. May Your fruits be evident in our relationship and who You are shine through in all that we do. May our relationship serve as a Godly example of marriage in ministry, and in our family. Amen.”
Spiritual Warfare I Experienced, Related to Today’s Study: This morning I woke up doing my normal daily routine. Unrelated to anything I was thinking of or doing, the enemy tried to hit me with the dart of “Maybe ____ is her future husband. He likes her.” This is a classic example of the enemy trying to cause the believer to rely on their own “candidate pool,” instead of the Lord’s perfect and ordained will for their lives. In scenarios like this, I like to say “I surrender this thought to Christ. I bind my thoughts to Christ.” Then, the dart generally goes away that moment. If it continues, you can say “I bind this demon, plunder it’s weapons, shields, spoils, and command it to leave and go to the place of the Lord’s choosing. I loose angels from Heaven wherever the Lord sees they are needed.” Each time, the demon is immediately bound, the attack stops, and God always sends the angels!
Self Reflection for Day 2: Reread your list for day 1, showing what the Lord wants you to look for in a future husband. Take intentional time to sit with the Lord. Be honest with Him and surrender to Him your thoughts and questions. For example: “God, where do You want me to meet this person?” “Is this a time period where You would will for me to continue to wait, trust You, and be still?” “What should I really look for, and how do I know what to look for when I meet him?” “Is there anything You need to prepare in me, before You would will for us to meet?” If you don’t have a list or simply don’t know where to begin, you can start by letting God lead you, by reading verses on marriage here!
Day 3- Surrender & Worthiness
Verse: 1 Peter 3-7: Wives and Husbands
1 In the same way, wives, be subject to your own husbands. Then, even if some are disobedient to the word, they will be won over without a word by the way you live, 2 when they see your pure and reverent conduct. 3 Let your beauty not be external – the braiding of hair and wearing of gold jewelry or fine clothes – 4 but the inner person of the heart, the lasting beauty of a gentle and tranquil spirit, which is precious in God’s sight. 5 For in the same way the holy women who hoped in God long ago adorned themselves by being subject to their husbands, 6 like Sarah who obeyed Abraham, calling him lord. You become her children when you do what is good and have no fear in doing so. 7 Husbands, in the same way, treat your wives with consideration as the weaker partners and show them honor as fellow heirs of the grace of life. In this way nothing will hinder your prayers.
Prayer: “Ancient of Days, help me to go about my days and nights seeing the worth You put in me. May I not be caught up in the ways of this world- hair, makeup, physique, injections, clothing, lifestyle, and comparisons. May my standard be the very heart that You see. Father, loose in me a gentle and tranquil spirit. I surrender my heart, and ask that You prepare both my future husband and I’s. Adorn my being with what is needed in my spirit, so that I may be who You would will, purpose, and decree that I am in my future marriage. Teach me how to be obedient and submit to You first Ancient of Days, so that these principles will be instilled in me for marriage. May I come to You first Father, as the God-head, and respect my future husband in his role as the head of the family. Help me to do what is good in Your sight, free of any fear in doing so. Heal the parts of me that need to be healed, reveal and break the lies that need to be dismantled, and remove what isn’t of You in my life. Help my future husband to treat me with consideration, kindness, empathy, and compassion. Train him up in the way he should go, and prepare him for his role as a husband and the head of the family. Amen.”
Spiritual Warfare I Experienced, Related to Today’s Study: While getting ready for the next day, I was thinking about my life and if there was anything I could do to prepare better. I was getting hit with several darts related to if I was ready or worthy. Thoughts like “Should I do a gym membership?” or “What if he doesn’t like ____ about me/my life?” started to shoot my way. I immediately turned to the Lord in prayer, surrendered these thoughts to Him, and compared them to His truths. The Lord brought me to Daniel in the lions den. The devil is the accuser (a roaring lion). By his standards, no one would ever be enough. By God’s standards, we are fearfully and wonderfully made, worthy of redemption and forgiveness of sin. It is the obedience Daniel showed on Earth, despite the accusations, or what this world was doing, that kept him protected and in alignment with God. It was obedience that kept him covered, shut the mouths of lions, and had angels move.
The Holy Spirit spoke to my heart very gently. I heard “stop trying and surrender.” This really hit me. So much of my life I had been “trying.” Trying to look nice. Trying to get my bank account or credit score to a place I’d like. Trying to save for a house. Trying to heal or fix something. Trying to improve something about who I was. What I was unintentionally doing was not fully surrendering to Christ. I had to trust that no matter where any of these things were in my life, if I met my future husband today picking up a hot dog (joke), I would ultimately be ready just the way I am. I had to proclaim out loud “I am worthy. I am ready.” In that moment, I felt something break in the spirit. Something lifted in the spiritual. The Lord had taken me a level deeper in my surrender and understandings. I had experienced a greater level of freedom in Christ!
Self Reflection for Day 3: Where have you experienced attacks of “worthiness” or “surrender,” when thinking about your relationship with your future partner? For example, is the enemy trying to get you to believe that if you fixed something about yourself or your life, you’d be “more ready/prepared?” This is a lie from satan. If we waited until our body and life were “perfect,” we’d be accepting another lie from satan. The Lord alone determines when we are ready, as He alone sees the heart. He alone knows the depth of the plans that He has for us, as well as when the timing needs to occur. Our surrender to our future husband begins with our surrender to God! Give God the wrinkle on your forehead, your figure and weight, the money in your bank account, your housing/car/custody situation, your credit score, the relationship you do/don’t have with your family, and everything else in your life. Stop “trying,” in obedience lean into God, and let Him be God. He will take it all for both you and your future partner. You are fearfully and wonderfully made. You are held in His righteous right hands and provided for each day. Accept these promises as your truth. Own it!
Day 4- Content Together, in Any Circumstance
Verse: Philippians 4:11-14: Appreciation for Support
11 I am not saying this because I am in need, for I have learned to be content in any circumstance. 12 I have experienced times of need and times of abundance. In any and every circumstance I have learned the secret of contentment, whether I go satisfied or hungry, have plenty or nothing. 13 I am able to do all things through the one who strengthens me. 14 Nevertheless, you did well to share with me in my trouble.
Prayer: “Ancient of Days, may You prepare my future husband and I’s character to be content in any circumstance. Bless us with the spiritual discernment and wisdom to see Your provisions in all that we do. May the works of our hands be guided by Your will in all that they do, and may they bring You honor, glory, and praise. May our marriage and ministry be met with provisions, divine appointments, and angelic encounters from Heaven all the days of our lives. May the fruits of our marriage and ministry impact Heaven and Earth for 1,000 generations and more, according to your will. May Your favor be upon all that we do. May provisions be ordained from Heaven, throughout our God-ordained union on this Earth. May we always have food, water, shelter, transportation, financial stability, and Godly relationships within and outside of the home. When trials come, may we look up to You together and find Your grace, mercy, and righteous right covering and sheltering us. May we encourage and strengthen one another through Christ, seek/praise/serve You together, and teach others how to do the same. Amen.”
Spiritual Warfare I Experienced, Related to Today’s Study: Todays prayer was inspired by “the harder things” in life. When we are met with obstacles (healthcare changes, court cases, job changes, loss, finances, etc.), we have a choice to make in how we handle them. We can choose to rely on our own understandings. Or, we can look up and know that there is One whose plans are for us, to give us hope, and a future. That “One” is Jehovah Jireh- “The Lord Will Provide.” His identity is constant, unfailing, and will never change. His promises are ALWAYS true. He doesn’t forget His promises to us, and He keeps every covenant that He makes. There may be times where we may “feel like” we are waiting or reminding Him of His promises. However, it is important to have a Kingdom perspective. God’s plans stretch far beyond what we can comprehend, or even imagine. He doesn’t tempt us or cause us to endure more than He knows we are truly capable of handling. Many trials on this Earth lead to breakthrough, increase, elevation, and a deeper walk and relationship with Christ.
1 Corinthians 10:13 (NET)- “No trial has overtaken you that is not faced by others. And God is faithful: He will not let you be tried beyond what you are able to bear, but with the trial will also provide a way out so that you may be able to endure it.”
Philippians 4:13 (NET)- “I am able to do all things through the one who strengthens me.”
Galatians 6:9 (NET)- “So we must not grow weary in doing good, for in due time we will reap, if we do not give up.”
Isaiah 40:31 (NET)- “But those who wait for the Lord ’s help find renewed strength; they rise up as if they had eagles’ wings, they run without growing weary, they walk without getting tired.”
Self Reflection for Day 4: What promises has the Lord made to you directly, regarding your life and your future? As a Daughter of Abraham, we are given the promises of all covenants back to Abraham. We walk in those very same promises as a God-given right and truth. It is up to us to claim the territory and rights, and walk in them with Christ. How would these promises look in your future marriage? Take time to sit with God, pray, and journal about this.
Day 5- A Lifelong Journey Growing in Love
Verse: 1 Corinthians 13 (NET): The Way of Love
1 If I speak in the tongues of men and of angels, but I do not have love, I am a noisy gong or a clanging cymbal. 2 And if I have prophecy, and know all mysteries and all knowledge, and if I have all faith so that I can remove mountains, but do not have love, I am nothing. 3 If I give away everything I own, and if I give over my body in order to boast, but do not have love, I receive no benefit.
4 Love is patient, love is kind, it is not envious. Love does not brag, it is not puffed up. 5 It is not rude, it is not self-serving, it is not easily angered or resentful. 6 It is not glad about injustice, but rejoices in the truth. 7 It bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things.
8 Love never ends. But if there are prophecies, they will be set aside; if there are tongues, they will cease; if there is knowledge, it will be set aside. 9 For we know in part, and we prophesy in part, 10 but when what is perfect comes, the partial will be set aside. 11 When I was a child, I talked like a child, I thought like a child, I reasoned like a child. But when I became an adult, I set aside childish ways. 12 For now we see in a mirror indirectly, but then we will see face to face. Now I know in part, but then I will know fully, just as I have been fully known. 13 And now these three remain: faith, hope, and love. But the greatest of these is love.
Prayer: “Heavenly Father, may my future husband and I show Your love in all that we do in increasing amounts, each day of our lives. May we show Your love to others in ministry, our family, and within our marriage. I pray that all parts of our being will be in alignment with who You are and the heart of Christ. I pray that you prepare and grow our hearts to be patient, kind, and to rejoice in the truth. I pray that you would prune and refine us throughout life from envy, bragging, self-serving, rude, easily angered, resentful, and unjust spiritual seeds, roots, and ungodly thought patterns. I pray that amidst life’s trials and tribulations, we will hold firm to our firm foundation in Christ. We will have patience and remain consistent. We will believe all things from the Spirit of Truth. We will hope for and seek Your promises with confidence. We will endure all things. I pray that we will seek You and find You as our firm foundation, our spiritual breathe, and our bread of life and living water. May the ministry that you would bless us to operate in exude Your faith, hope, and love.”
Day 6- Character as a Wife
Verse: Proverbs 31:10-31 The Wife of Noble Character
10 Who can find a wife of noble character? For her value is far more than rubies.
11 The heart of her husband has confidence in her, and he has no lack of gain.
12 She brings him good and not evil all the days of her life.
13 She obtains wool and flax, and she is pleased to work with her hands.
14 She is like the merchant ships; she brings her food from afar.
15 She also gets up while it is still night, and provides food for her household and a portion to her female servants.
16 She considers a field and buys it; from her own income she plants a vineyard.
17 She begins her work vigorously, and she strengthens her arms.
18 She knows that her merchandise is good, and her lamp does not go out in the night.
19 Her hands take hold of the distaff, and her hands grasp the spindle.
20 She extends her hand to the poor, and reaches out her hand to the needy.
21 She is not afraid of the snow for her household, for all of her household are clothed with scarlet.
22 She makes for herself coverlets; her clothing is fine linen and purple.
23 Her husband is well-known in the city gate when he sits with the elders of the land.
24 She makes linen garments and sells them, and supplies the merchants with sashes.
25 She is clothed with strength and honor, and she can laugh at the time to come.
26 She opens her mouth with wisdom, and loving instruction is on her tongue.
27 She watches over the ways of her household, and does not eat the bread of idleness.
28 Her children rise up and call her blessed, her husband also praises her:
29 “Many daughters have done valiantly, but you surpass them all!”
30 Charm is deceitful and beauty is fleeting, but a woman who fears the Lord will be praised.
31 Give her credit for what she has accomplished, and let her works praise her in the city gates.
Prayer: “Ancient of Days, may you prepare me every day to be a wife of noble character. May my husband view me as far more precious than the things of this world. May what You build in me bring Godly fruits into our marriage, and allow us to have a trusting, stable, and confident relationship. May I be wise and discerning in financial decisions with purchases, investments, and items brought into the marriage. May I have hands that do Your works with honest, diligence, and integrity. May the fear of the Lord be shown in the decision making process in which I operate in. May my vocal cords be aligned with Heaven and the words I speak be loving, kinds, and hold wise instruction. May aid in providing for our family, and the ministry that You would will and prepare in advance for us. May I set a good example for the children in the home and lead them in the ways that You would will for them to go.”
Day 7- Character as a Husband
Verses:
Genesis 2:24 (NET)- That is why a man leaves his father and mother and unites with his wife, and they become a new family.
Proverbs 5:18 (NET)- May your fountain be blessed, and may you rejoice in your young wife –
1 Peter 3:7 (NET)- Husbands, in the same way, treat your wives with consideration as the weaker partners and show them honor as fellow heirs of the grace of life. In this way nothing will hinder your prayers.
Colossians 3:19 (NET)- Husbands, love your wives and do not be embittered against them.
Ecclesiastes 9:9 (NET)- Enjoy life with your beloved wife during all the days of your fleeting life that God has given you on earth during all your fleeting days; for that is your reward in life and in your burdensome work on earth.
Prayer: “Ancient of Days, please prepare my future husband for our life together. I pray that You prepare him financially and emotionally to leave his family unit, in the ways You would will, for us to have the firm foundation that we need to have in You together. May you prepare my husband to be pure in his intentions, lifestyle, and content within our marriage bed. If it is your will, bless us with a family of our own according to Your God-ordained timing and purposes. I pray that he would treat me with consideration as the weaker partner and show me honor as a fellow heir of the grace of life. May we work through trails and tribulations with kindness, compassion, empathy, and a Kingdom perspective- going to sleep at night with forgiveness for one another in our hearts. May he look at me and truly feel enjoyment in our marriage, all the days of our lives. May we honor You in all of the days that You would give us together on this Earth, as we serve You together in ministry, and honor You by our Godly marriage.”
Day 8- Character Together
Verse: Ephesians 5 22:33- Exhortations to Households
22 Wives, submit to your husbands as to the Lord, 23 because the husband is the head of the wife as also Christ is the head of the church – he himself being the savior of the body. 24 But as the church submits to Christ, so also wives should submit to their husbands in everything. 25 Husbands, love your wives just as Christ loved the church and gave himself for her 26 to sanctify her by cleansing her with the washing of the water by the word, 27 so that he may present the church to himself as glorious – not having a stain or wrinkle, or any such blemish, but holy and blameless. 28 In the same way husbands ought to love their wives as their own bodies. He who loves his wife loves himself. 29 For no one has ever hated his own body but he feeds it and takes care of it, just as Christ also does the church, 30 for we are members of his body. 31 For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and will be joined to his wife, and the two will become one flesh. 32 This mystery is great – but I am actually speaking with reference to Christ and the church. 33 Nevertheless, each one of you must also love his own wife as he loves himself, and the wife must respect her husband.
Prayer: “Ancient of Days, please teach me how to submit to you as my Heavenly Father, in order for me to properly submit to my Earthly husband in everything. May my husband operate in integrity as the head of the family. May Your workmanship in him lead to an increase in holy and blameless character, all the days of his life. May he speak life within our marriage and family, aiding to cleanse our beings with living water. May he have a Godly love for himself, and may his cup run over to pour into mine. May we operate mightily as part of the body of Christ within our marriage. May You anoint and appoint our day of meeting, the timing of our courtship, as well as the God-ordained day of our marriage. May we operate in purity, integrity, and sacrifice of the flesh during our courtship. May we operate in clarity of mind and emotions, and save ourselves for marriage the way that You would ordain. Please loose angels on assignment during our courtship and marriage, to aid all that you have planned. May our love for You run deeper that our love for one another, as You are our firm foundation, the One who fills both of our cups, and allows our entire courtship to operate according to Your perfect will.”
Day 9- Calling All Things Into Alignment
*Please note that this prayer is pulled from Bride Ministries.
Verses:
Isaiah 11:2 NET The LORD’s spirit will rest on him – a spirit that gives extraordinary wisdom, a spirit that provides the ability to execute plans, a spirit that produces absolute loyalty to the LORD.
1 Peter 2:4-5 NET 4 So as you come to him, a living stone rejected by men but chosen and priceless in God’s sight, 5 you yourselves, as living stones, are built up as a spiritual house to be a holy priesthood and to offer spiritual sacrifices that are acceptable to God through Jesus Christ. 6
1 Chronicles 28:13 (NET) He gave him the regulations for the divisions of priests and Levites, for all the assigned responsibilities within the Lord ’s temple, and for all the items used in the service of the Lord ’s temple.
Prayer: “Father God, we come before you in the mighty name of Jesus. We bring our heavenly mansions, archai, metra, stars, mountains, living stones, and trees into alignment along with our bodies, souls, hearts, and spirits. We connect our businesses and ministries, as well as all other ordained exploits. We call our realms charged with the names of God, Jehovah-Jireh, Jehovah-Rapha, Jehovah-Shammah, Jehovah-Nissi, Jehovah-Tsidkenu, Jehovah-Makkedesh, Jehovah-Ra’ah, Jehovah-Shalom, Jehovah-Gibbowr, Jehovah-Elohim, Jehovah-Sabaoth, Jehovah-Issuwz, Jehovah-Hoseenu, Jehovah-Quana, Jehovah-Chayil, Jehovah-Milchamah, El-Shaddai, El-Elyon, El-Olam, El-Roy, Yeshuah Ha Mashiach. We furthermore interface our realms with the seven Spirits of God; the Spirit of the Lord, the Spirit of Wisdom and Understanding, the Spirit of Counsel and Might, the Spirit of Knowledge, and the Fear of the Lord. We also invite the Living Letters into our realms in order to vibrate in accordance with their resonant frequencies bringing heaven and earth into alignment. We declare that what the Lord has put together, let no man put asunder. We open our hearts to receive your thoughts about each other and determine to receive and meditate on what you reveal. We purpose to walk together and in agreement. We open our hearts to receive conviction wherever mistreatment is occurring and refuse to tolerate it within the confines of our union. We receive ongoing revelation that will allow us to love each other, not according to the limits of our humanity, but according to the limitlessness of the love which you put on the inside of us. Thank you, King Jesus, for the unveiling of your vision for our marriage. We receive it as a branding upon our hearts, established by the work of your Holy Spirit. Amen.”
Day 10- God, What is YOUR Will?
Verses:
Proverbs 16:9 NET- “A person plans his course, but the LORD directs his steps.”
Proverbs 19:21 NET- “There are many plans in a person’s mind, but it is the counsel of the LORD which will stand.”
Jeremiah 29:11 NET- “For I know what I have planned for you,’ says the LORD. ‘I have plans to prosper you, not to harm you. I have plans to give you a future filled with hope.”
Psalms 37:4 (NET)- “Then you will take delight in the Lord , and he will answer your prayers.”
Prayer: “Father God, I praise you and I thank you for all that you have brought to pass in my life and my husband’s life. I thank you that by Your hand we have been kept safe. I praise you that You formed us in our mother’s wombs, with a beautiful God-ordained purpose on this Earth. I pray that you reveal to the husband and I anything that you would like to heal, refine, or prune in our lives. I also pray that you reveal to us with clarity the steps that we need to take, all the days of our lives. May the light of the Holy Spirit illuminate our path together with Christ. I pray that the counsel of the Lord will always be the firm foundation on which we stand, regardless of what the world looks like. I ask for the discernment and the fruits of the spirit to walk in all plans that You have for us. I call our bodies, souls, and spirits into alignment with the lambs book of life and the straight and narrow path. I bind all parts of our being to the will of the Ancient of Days. I look forward to seeing You prosper us, provide for us, and give us a future filled with hope. We take delight in You and praise You all of our days. Amen.”
Day 11- The Combining of Ministries
Verses:
Ecclesiastes 4:9 NET- “Two people are better than one, because they can reap more benefit from their labor.”
Proverbs 3:6 (NET)- “Acknowledge him in all your ways, and he will make your paths straight.”
Colossians 3:14 (NET)- “And to all these virtues add love, which is the perfect bond.”
1 Timothy 1:12 NET- 12 “I am grateful to the one who has strengthened me, Christ Jesus our Lord, because he considered me faithful in putting me into ministry, 13 even though I was formerly a blasphemer and a persecutor, and an arrogant man. But I was treated with mercy because I acted ignorantly in unbelief, 14 and our Lord’s grace was abundant, bringing faith and love in Christ Jesus.”
Prayer: “Father God, I pray that my future husband and I know and understand the love of the Father. I pray that we surrender to service and a relationship with You, all the days of our lives. I pray that our love for you fuels the love that we have for one another. I pray that the bond of love that we have together, aids in bonding our ministry walk with Christ. I ask that spiritual bumpers, divine appointments, angelic assistance, and provisions be loosed to aid my future husband and I’s walks with you. May we stay close with Christ on the straight and narrow path, hand in hand. I pray that our hands will work compassionately and wisely together to aid those in which you prepare us to lead to Christ. I thank You for strengthening us and our marriage for the path ahead. I praise You for your abundant grace, faith, and love. Glory be to God!”
Day 12- A Blessing Over the “New Ministry”
Verses:
1 Corinthians 12:4-12 (NET)- 4 “Now there are different gifts, but the same Spirit. 5 And there are different ministries, but the same Lord. 6 And there are different results, but the same God who produces all of them in everyone. 7 To each person the manifestation of the Spirit is given for the benefit of all. 8 For one person is given through the Spirit the message of wisdom, and another the message of knowledge according to the same Spirit, 9 to another faith by the same Spirit, and to another gifts of healing by the one Spirit, 10 to another performance of miracles, to another prophecy, and to another discernment of spirits, to another different kinds of tongues, and to another the interpretation of tongues. 11 It is one and the same Spirit, distributing as he decides to each person, who produces all these things.”
Prayer: “Father, may the ministry that you have prepared in advance for the future husband and I bring you much honor, glory, and praise. I pray that the ministry abounds in your gifts. I pray we are led by the Spirit and miracles are shown through the acts of the Living God. May the manifestation of who You are in us be heavy, ever-present, and clear that You are Lord. I pray for the bestowing of the Spirit of wisdom, knowledge, faith, healing, miracles, prophecy, discernment of spirits, different kinds of tongues, and interpretation of tongues. I pray that the ministry will bring about a harvest of Godly fruits, seeds, roots, and soil that is prepared for the advancement of Your kingdom. I pray that You align the paths of the people that we are called to serve, towards the ministry. I pray that You show us where we need to go, how we need to go, and with clarity and boldness our steps will follow You. I pray that we move with Godly faith and not fear. I pray that when we pray, provisions in abundance fall on us and the people we serve. I pray that healing manifests through diseases cured, demons cast out, and the dead raised to walk again- according to Your perfect will. I pray that we develop it all with You one step at a time.”
Day 13- Patience in the Waiting
Verses:
Galatians 5:22-23 NET- 22 But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, 23 gentleness, and self-control.
Colossians 3:12 NET- 12 Therefore, as the elect of God, holy and dearly loved, clothe yourselves with a heart of mercy, kindness, humility, gentleness, and patience, 13 bearing with one another and forgiving one another, if someone happens to have a complaint against anyone else.
2 Timothy 4:2 NET- Preach the message, be ready whether it is convenient or not, reprove, rebuke, exhort with complete patience and instruction.
Romans 8:25 NET- But if we hope for what we do not see, we eagerly wait for it with endurance.
Hebrews 10:36 NET- For you need endurance in order to do God’s will and so receive what is promised.
Prayer: “Ancient of Days, I pray that you instill in the future husband and I strong roots of the fruits of the Spirit. I lift up the fruit of the Spirit of patience to You today. I pray that You prune and pull out what doesn’t honor and glorify You. I pray that You clothe our hearts in mercy, kindness, humility, gentleness, and patience. May we be quick to forgive and cancel the sin debts of others, just as Christ did for us. I pray that we wait, watch, and listen with a discerning eye, ear, and mind as we wait to meet one another, get married, and go through life together. I pray that during the waiting seasons we lean into You and preach Your word, teach and heal others the way You have done for us, and move forward with hope and endurance for what lies ahead. May we encourage one another throughout life with patience and instruction, and may we receive both of those things from You through seeking You and finding You daily. May we do Your will and receive what is promised for our marriage, lineage, bloodline, and descendants forevermore.”
